Ask Violet :3

Because we want to be what we see as ‘their perfect match’. When we like someone we aspire to be the best we can be even though our opinions on who we could/should be for these people aren’t even really ourselves sometimes. After a prolonged period of time under this act it can be hard for people to revert back to their usual self. The decisions and opinions of this new persona can become apart of your system.

The best thing to do is remember that if you aren’t going to be liked for you are you probably won’t like them much either.

:3